House Rules and Community Standards

The Mansion is a private home shared with invited adults. Everyone plays a role in maintaining an environment built on consent, respect, privacy, discretion, hospitality, and personal responsibility.

Consent · Respect · Discretion

Failure to follow these standards may result in intervention, removal from the gathering, suspension, or permanent loss of invitation privileges.

Consent & Boundaries

Consent is mandatory.

• Ask before touching.
• Never assume consent.
• A “no” does not require an explanation.
• Ask once. Do not pressure, persuade, negotiate, or repeatedly ask after someone declines.
• Consent may be withdrawn at any time.
• Previous consent does not create future consent.
• Consent to one activity does not mean consent to another.
• Relationship status does not grant consent on another person’s behalf.
• Clothing, nudity, flirting, or participation in another activity is never permission to touch.
• Intoxication or impairment may affect a person’s ability to consent.
• Respect personal space and intimate moments involving other guests.
• When uncertain, ask.

Guests are encouraged to communicate openly with prospective partners regarding sexual health, boundaries, barrier preferences, and individual risk tolerance before intimate activity.

Respectful Conduct

Treat every guest, Event Host, and Mansion volunteer with dignity and respect. The following behavior is not acceptable:

• Harassment
• Coercion
• Intimidation
• Aggressive behavior
• Unwanted touching
• Repeated unwanted advances
• Following another guest after they have disengaged
• Stalking or persistent pursuit
• Interfering with another person’s intimate interaction
• Disrespectful treatment of guests, Hosts, or volunteers

Closed doors and drawn curtains indicate that a space is occupied. Do not open them. Guests observing activity in shared intimate spaces should remain respectful and avoid disrupting the people participating.

Privacy, Phones & Recording

What happens at The Mansion stays private. Guest privacy is one of our highest priorities.

• Cell phones must remain put away while inside the home except in specifically approved areas or circumstances.
• Photography is prohibited unless expressly authorized.
• Video recording is prohibited.
• Audio recording is prohibited.
• Never photograph or record another guest without explicit authorization.
• Do not publicly identify another guest as attending The Mansion.
• Do not share another guest’s legal name, phone number, address, workplace, photographs, relationship information, or other private information without permission.

Privacy expectations continue after the gathering ends.

Alcohol, Drugs, Smoking & Weapons

Alcohol

The Mansion operates on a bring-your-own-beverage basis. The Mansion does not sell alcohol.

Guests remain responsible for their own alcohol consumption and behavior. Mansion volunteers may assist with identifying, storing, retrieving, or safeguarding guest-owned bottles and may provide nonalcoholic mixers, water, ice, or similar hospitality items.

Guests who arrive visibly impaired may be denied entry. Guests who become significantly impaired may be asked to stop drinking, arrange safe transportation, or leave the gathering.

Drugs

Illegal drugs and prohibited controlled substances are not permitted. Cannabis is not permitted on the premises.

Possession, use, sale, distribution, or sharing of prohibited substances may result in immediate removal and permanent loss of invitation privileges.

Smoking & Vaping

Smoking and vaping are not permitted inside the home. Use designated outdoor areas when provided.

Weapons

Weapons are not permitted at Mansion gatherings, including firearms, knives intended as weapons, mace, stun guns, or similar defensive weapons.

Invitations & Attendance

Attendance is by invitation or prior approval only.

• Do not bring an unapproved guest.
• Invitations are personal and are not transferable.
• Do not give, sell, or loan an invitation or registration to another person.
• Every guest must complete their own registration and participation agreement.
• Couples attending under a couple invitation are expected to arrive together unless arrangements have been approved in advance.
• Single guest attendance may be limited to maintain the balance and atmosphere of the gathering.
• Admission remains at the discretion of the Event Hosts.

Intimate Spaces

Sexual activity is permitted only in areas designated for intimate activity. Respect guests already using a room or space.

Do not enter a private room, open a closed door, move a curtain, join an activity, or touch anyone involved without invitation and consent. Observation of activity does not create permission to participate.

Care of the Home

The Mansion is a private residence. Treat it accordingly. After using an intimate space:

• Remove used linens as directed.
• Place linens in designated laundry containers.
• Dispose of condoms and personal items in appropriate waste containers.
• Clean furniture and surfaces using the supplies provided.
• Leave the space ready for the next guests.

If an accident, spill, damage, or other issue occurs, notify a Mansion volunteer promptly so it can be addressed discreetly.

Do not tamper with:

• Doors or locks
• Emergency exits
• Fire or safety equipment
• Lighting systems
• Audio or visual equipment
• Signs
• Furniture or fixtures

Theft, intentional damage, or vandalism may result in permanent loss of invitation privileges and may be reported to appropriate authorities.

Dress Standards

Dress to impress. The Mansion maintains an elevated, sexy social atmosphere. Guests should arrive clean, well-groomed, and appropriately dressed for the gathering.

Generally, Not Appropriate

• Graphic T-shirts
• Sports jerseys
• Athletic wear
• Hoodies
• Ball caps
• Cargo pants
• Heavily ripped or cut-off jeans
• Work boots
• Running shoes
• Flip-flops
• Dirty, torn, or noticeably odorous clothing

Theme attire is encouraged when applicable but is not required unless specifically stated. The general Mansion dress standard remains in effect regardless of theme.

Community Integrity

The Mansion community is built on trust. Guests may not use Mansion gatherings primarily to recruit for, solicit, advertise, or promote competing parties, events, businesses, or services without permission from the Event Hosts.

Casual conversation about other activities is different from deliberately recruiting guests or distributing promotional material. Repeated or intentional solicitation may result in loss of invitation privileges.

Prostitution, commercial sexual solicitation, illegal drug activity, trafficking, or other illegal conduct is strictly prohibited.

Reporting Concerns

If something makes you uncomfortable or raises a concern, please tell us. Guests are encouraged to promptly approach an:

• Event Host
• Event Lead
• Safety Host
• Mansion volunteer

Concerns involving consent, harassment, unwanted attention, excessive intoxication, unsafe behavior, privacy, or other guest conduct will be taken seriously. Guests do not need to confront another person themselves before asking for assistance.

Retaliation against someone for raising a good-faith concern is not acceptable.

Enforcement

The Event Hosts and designated Mansion volunteers may intervene when conduct appears inconsistent with these standards or creates a concern for another guest or the household. Depending on the circumstances, a guest may be:

• Given guidance or reminded of a rule
• Asked to discontinue particular conduct
• Asked to separate from another guest
• Asked to stop consuming alcohol
• Asked to arrange safe transportation
• Asked to leave
• Suspended from future gatherings
• Permanently removed from the invitation community

Serious violations may result in immediate removal without prior warning. If a guest is removed for violating these standards, any event contribution associated with that gathering will not be refunded.

Use Good Judgment

No written set of rules can anticipate every situation. When these standards do not specifically address something, use good judgment.

• Respect the home.
• Respect the people around you.
• Protect one another’s privacy.
• Ask before touching.
• Communicate clearly.
• When uncertain, ask a Mansion volunteer.

Our goal is for every invited guest to enjoy The Mansion while feeling welcomed, respected, and comfortable establishing their own boundaries.

Final Acknowledgment

I confirm that I have read and understand the Mansion House Rules & Community Standards. I voluntarily agree to follow these standards as a condition of my attendance.

I understand that failure to follow these standards may result in my being asked to leave and may affect my eligibility to attend future Mansion gatherings. I further understand that if I am removed for violation of these standards, any event contribution associated with the gathering will not be refunded.

Refunds

All sales are final. If you are unable to attend a party, contact us and we will do our best to reschedule.